LIST

Ok so he hasn't called in two days....but for some reason I don't think that it is over. I have this sinking feeling that he is going to pop back into my world. This time I just have to be strong enough to say NO....we went through this once before. We did not talk for a month......no email, no text....nothing and then POOF...he came back.....Then he was real insistent about it....weird. I think it is the mood of his "main" relationship........Well I decided that I refuse to be the side chick....I am so much better than that. I am beginning to realize that even if he left his girl I refuse to be her in like a year or so...I am good. I want a good man.....so I decided to make a list... :-)


MY GOOD MAN

1. honest-number one....I can't be checking phones and all that stuff.
2. smart-I love intelligence. and not just book samrts but life smarts as well. So Sexy
3. a relationship with God- I know that I have a long way on my walk with JEsus. But it is a work in progress and I want my man to be on a simialr path.
4. a positive relationship with his Mom-not a Mama's boy but you can' hate the women that gave u life and truly love me.....Not going to work
5. Strong family values-My parents taught be certain things and I have a way I think a man should carry himself...I haven't completely found it yet
6. great sense of humor-al my friends will tell you that I am a nut and I need someone that can handle my humor ( sometimes it is really dry :-))
7. manly- I want a clean man but not a "metrosexual" I need you to get your hands dirty. and not be in the mirror longer than me
8. not the bruding quiet type but not a talker either. My dad always said that men don't talk to much especially on the phone to other men....tell tell sign of a problem
9. Great with money. My credit is good and yours should be too. At this age you need to own something (car, home, bicycle, something)
10. Career- Duffle bagging does not count. I am not trying to go to jail with your package in my house. I will rat you out. TRUST!!!!!
11. Generally cool person. Just someone that I would love to be with all the time

That is the beginning of my list....that was fun.........might need to revisit it from time to time.....